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Thursday, October 18, 2012

Well, I Tried To Expand My Horizons

I get into reading ruts.

Actually, I've been stuck in the same reading rut for years now.

I'm stuck on/in dystopian fiction and speculative fiction. (Margaret Atwood, what what?)


So when I received an offer from BlogHer to review Diary of a Submissive by Sophie Morgan, I jumped at it.

And then I remembered why I mostly stick to the classics and my tried-and-true genres.

There are some humorous moments in the book, it is well written, and it explores and reveals many aspects of (moderately unhealthy) real-life relationships. There is a lot of gritty honesty in this book - so much honesty (and, truthfully, so many disquieting scenes) that it may make some readers uncomfortable. 

This memoir chronicles Sophie's relationships and sex life. It is rife with contradictions: Sophie states she is not ashamed of her choices, yet she uses a pen name. She claims to be confident and self-sufficient, but her character never stands up for herself - ever. Except for one brief, shining moment, she trails behind the men in her life like a sad puppy - and allows and encourages them to hurt her. To each her own, but the relationships in this book seem...well, horrible. 

In any case, it was interesting to get out of my 'reading bubble' and try to see through a completely different person's eyes, but this book wasn't for me.

Check out the BlogHer Book Club page here!

This is a compensated review, but the words & thoughts are my own.

10 comments:

  1. At least you're reading!! :)

    T.

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  2. Well the title DOES proclaim her submission. She embraces her life as a doormat. And BlogHER suggests it? Say what?

    At least you stuck with the somewhat dystopic theme.

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    1. Although I admit to lacking personal experience, I always thought there was a big difference between being sexually submissive and being submissive in the rest of your life. For my money, the first is just a preference and the second one is seriously bad for you. But maybe that's just the propaganda, and the truth is that there's more overlap.

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    2. I think there can be a difference - I think you can be submissive in some aspects of your life and not in others...but Sophie seems to lack the maturity & strength (or perhaps just the desire) to establish her dominance in any part of her life. No personal experience over here either! =) I thought this book would provide more insight into the psychology & sociology behind this subculture, not a diary detailing one person's experience.

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    3. Sometimes submission comes from feeling like the less powerful person (for whatever reason). In bed or at work... anywhere really. Just a thought from an old broad.

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  3. Ughh I'm really not into those books! I don't get it, they've been around for years but everyone is acting like 50 shades is the first 'erotic fiction' ever written!

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  4. Then i guess you shouldn't read the Fifty trilogy?!

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  5. Are you on Goodreads.com?? I am on a reading frenzy these days and always looking for a new title. I'm sure I'd be interested in this book for the relationship theme but probably be annoyed by the main character!

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  6. Good on you for reading something new and different. I def get into reading ruts too.

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